Friday, November 6, 2009

Take a chance on me.

Sometimes in life, one has to take risks to get what they want and need.
Taking risks can be a hard thing to do, especially if one is content with their lifestyle. But what if the one you loved is separated from you? Are you really satisfied with your life? No... no you're not. So what do you do at this point? You're comfortable with your life and don't feel like moving but yet you say that you would do everything and anything to get to this other person you love. Doesn't quite make sense. So what's next? Do you give up everything you have in one area to be with this other person? Or do you make them wait, yet another 2 years, possibly, until you can live in the same area to simply have a true relationship together. Why is it that the one thing you want in life is the hardest thing to get. I personally have yet to figure it out. Is it my responsibility to give up my life to be next to someone? Or is it the others job? Hard to juggle.
Long distance relationships suck crap. It's that simple (but not really simple). Are long distance relationships even real relationships? It's hard to develop and grow with someone when they're not near you. It's hard to keep the fire going. It's hard to make memories and inside jokes with someone when you're only able to visit for maybe a week or 2 every couple of months.
So do you take a chance on everything and risk everything to be with this other person. I'd say yes. But who's responsibility is it? That depends.
Is it wroth giving your whole self to someone who is 1,954 miles away from you?

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